new blog!

a relationship ecologist has something to write about...

I let go of my last blog livingtogether.us. I realized pretty soon after starting that blog that I didn’t actually know how to “live best” and became tired of running into walls that questioned my professionalism and legitimacy.

But that didn’t mean I stopped writing… I just stopped posting. And it became clear that underneath this desire to know how to live together was the desire to understand how we best are in relationship together.

After sharing my work on writing on relationships with my first relationship zine: a collectivist guide on whole, fluid, and rooted relationships, I started receiving feedback that people wanted more!

Since my relationship zines take quite some time to complete, and this newest one I’m working on is much more complex… I decided I’d play around with a more chill informal blog that sort of spits out all my thoughts in sometimes messy and unprocessed ways.

But for me, I love it because it archives where I was in that moment and gives me a time stamp as to where my thinking has evolved to in that moment. Also, I know that the more I write the better, because all ideas only build on top of each other!

So, if you’d like to give it a little read check it out at: arelationshipecologist.org

Also shouts out to Raffa for the photo of me in Joshua Tree

The font I used is called “Feelings” which is a font I created and is available for trade/purchase :)

Thanks for your support!